BUILDING A RELATIONSHIP IS LIKE PLANTING A TREE

It starts with sowing. It’s the first stage of every relationship.

Building a relationship entails putting in your all. It’s a give and take process required from both parties.

The sown seeds then sprouts and awaits tendering.

Then comes the watering process.

It doesn’t just require sowing and waiting to become mature on its own.

The growth is wholly dependent on your efforts. It’s that stage in your relationship where lot of sacrifices are required.

While the plant grows,it faces the effects of the elements.
There are the weeds which are always not wanted but unavoidable. Those are the negative influences or attitude trying to creep in. You shouldn’t hesitate uprooting.

There are also the pollinators who try to influence your relationship to yield different species. UNACCEPTABLE is the term here..It’s meant to be self pollinated not cross pollinated.

Admirers are not to be neglected also. The more beautiful your plant is,the more admirers it gets. All admirers may not be of good intention. There are the ones who admire with envy at the back of their minds thus having it as their main aim to destroy. They are the ones who admire and pluck out a part of the plant. BE WARE OF THESE TYPE. it’s your duty to ward off.

With your care,your plant grows to become a tree point and then begins to yield fruit. Those fruits are what you enjoy for sowing.

Every growing plant has favourable weather it works under. Not every season is favorable for it…There are some seasons withering is inevitable. But it withers and blossoms again..

It brings to mind therefore that there are also trying times in some stages of every relationship which is inevitable but surmountable. It blossoms thereafter.